Princess Diana: “There were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded.”

In Princess Diana’s case, the ‘third’ was another woman. The clinical term for ‘thirds’ is triangulation. Imagine a triangle in which the two of you are each a point, and someone or something else is the third point. Meaning you’re not prioritizing one another since you’re focused on someone or something else. Unfortunately, in many[…]

Couples and Premarital: Parallel Living: What to Do

I received an email thanking me for writing [https://www.paloaltoonline.com/blogs/p/2016/01/28/signs-and-symptoms-of-parallel-living Signs and Symptoms of Parallel Living]. She recognized it in her marriage, and asked me what to do. Here are the steps: Write down 10 feelings you have about it. Here are a few that you might be feeling:a. Lonelyb. Sadc. Confusedd. Angry (always look for[…]